When you successfully exit a class you think of as losers but only acquire modest success on the side you think of as winners you end up seething in resentment at both the people you left behind AND the people you failed to join. Both sides think more of themselves than you do. You are mad all the time because unconsciously you think you are the shit in the shit sandwich.

Very hard-to-fix psyche. Such people hold on to their unhappiness like superglue. They may be so burned no amount of love and validation can heal them.


@vgr Hmmm... describes a few people I know

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